Please Don’t Say You’re Sorry

Should you stay or should you go now? In Please Don’t Say You’re Sorry, marriage-loving divorce attorney, Nicole Sodoma shows up with empowering advice to help you sustain a real and happy marriage, recognize when that’s just not possible, and know what to expect and do from there. What’s more, she does it with a generous dose of humor to remind you that you can and will laugh again.

When marriage-loving divorce attorney Nicole Sodoma separated from her husband of thirteen years, she found herself seated in a symphony of sympathies. She quickly began to question why it is that people say “congratulations” when we marry and “I’m sorry” when we divorce.

There’s no denying that divorce sucks. The journey can be wholly overwhelming and emotionally exhausting, but it also doesn’t have to be the worst thing that’s ever happened to you. In Please Don’t Say You’re Sorry, Sodoma serves up both the humorous and decidedly unfunny realities of marriage and divorce alongside empowering principles for navigating either.  Equally hopeful and insightful, Please Don’t Say You’re Sorry offers a fresh perspective on marriage, separation, and divorce, including stories from Sodoma’s experience growing up in a blended family following her parents’ divorce; her own divorce; and more than two decades as a family law attorney leading others through the divorce process. From hard truths about seeking sole custody and the realities of court proceedings, to compassionate insights derived from her perspective as a family law attorney, her leave-nothing-out relatable communication style makes it easy to feel deeply understood. Sodoma wants readers to know that even in the moments when they are faced with making seemingly impossible decisions – they are not alone.

Whether you are looking for advice on how to better your marriage, are considering separation, or find yourself knee-deep in divorce, this book has something for you. Today is the first day of the rest of your life, and now you’ve got a badass no-holds-barred divorce attorney by your side.